These are the toughest time when it’s hard to think and decide. The
peak has gone and the confidence is lost. I wonder if it’s really possible to have a
second climax. I wanted to let it burst but somehow prefer not to let it explode. I don't like
the stain. I don't like someone would see. Because it’s true, I’m just weak.
I'm
afraid to lose again. Or maybe it’s really a losing battle and I’m just afraid to accept the
truth. If there would be a living hell in this world, it would be the
love that withers
with time. It’s
when the person doesn’t love you anymore. It’s when slowly he/she pushes you away.
Love
each other or perish...
I will share an excerpt from the book “Tuesdays with Morrie”,
something that has caught my attention.
There are few rules I
know to be true about love and marriage:
If you don’t respect
the other person, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you don’t know how
to compromise, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you can’t talk
openly about what goes on between you, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble.
And if you don’t have
a common set of values in life, you’re gonna have a lot of trouble.
Your values must be
alike.
“And the biggest one
of those values, Mitch?”
Yes?
“Your belief in the importance of your marriage.”